How to date men if I hate them?

If you take a stroll down internet lane you will find a lot of TikTok videos, commentary YouTube videos, and blog posts talking about the many horrific things men do and the terrible effect it has on women.  I know…

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why you don’t need to breakup to glow up

The breakup glow-up trend is huge these days. We’ve all seen the before-and-after TikToks and social media posts blowing up. But why do we think we need to break up to grow up? In today’s article, I’ll give you 10…

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Is being Jealous…Toxic?

I have heard many creators on Booktok and read much fan fiction on AO3 that glamorizes the idea of a jealous and possessive partner.  I have even looked for that in old partners of mine and considered a way for…

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Journal entry March 2023

Lately, I’ve found myself pondering a lot about my dating history. I think I’ve always shied away from dating because I felt it might go against my beliefs and morals, especially considering my negative opinions about men. People often told…

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5 journal prompts to help you get over your ex

Breaking up with someone you’ve been crazy about for ages, and still have feelings for, can seriously feel like the end of the world. It’s like you’re stuck in this rut, unable to see beyond the heartache. We’re all creatures…

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Welcome to my About Page

Hello Ladies! I aim to empower women in their decision-making process, particularly when it comes to selecting a partner. Society often conditions women to approach dating as if it were a job interview, seeking validation from others. However, dating should…

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Date successfully( and have fun while doing it!)

One of my passions is providing dating advice to people navigating the sometimes stressful world of relationships. Dating should be an enjoyable and fulfilling part of life, but it’s important to understand some basic principles: 1. Be Honest: Being honest…

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